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I LEFT HIM IM PREGNANT NOW WHAT??

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ladynew · 28/01/2013 05:24

I was in a domestic violent relationship along with my 5 year old little girl from a previous relationship. This guy was controlling abusive and yelled at me and my child ...nothing was ever right for him and it got to the point I couldn't take it anymore.. we got into our last argument while my 5 year old was home he ended up bringing a knife out on me and Icut him and sent him to jail.. too afraid to come to court to testify i left state and left my home ...I went to the hospital to get a check up and found out I was 3 months pregnant... now he's out but I'm in another state but how do Imove on with my life.... I'm living with parents my 5 year old is happy here but I personally don't know where to go from here I'm hurt on the inside but have to stay strong for my child and my family.... but no one truly knows what I've been thru and now that I'm out and pregnant by him Idont know where to go from here....PLEASE HELP

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chucksaway · 28/01/2013 06:08

are you considering abortion? as for your own mental wellbeing you dont sound strong enough with the emotional turmoil of having a lifelong link with this animal man. are you in the us?

izzyizin · 28/01/2013 06:08

Have you googled to see what help your State gives to women who have been victims of domestic violence or violent assault by abusive males?

How supportive are your dps? Have you told them about this pregnancy and have you considered a termination?

You are not obliged to tell your abuser anything, including the fact that you are pg by him, and I can see no reason why you should have any further contact with him unless, of course, you intend to apply for child support payments.

chucksaway · 28/01/2013 06:09

*to deal with

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