Can I be nosey & ask if you've ever had one? Why was it taboo? How did it start/progress/end? How do/did you feel about it all? Was it/is it worth it? Not some elaborate thesis I'm researching, just a slippery slope I'm on, trying to find the wherewithall to get off & yes, I'll tell you all about it, just got to work out how to name change first.