Probably a dumb question, but what is a cocklodger?

[AlexanderS]

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Eats your food, drinks your booze, spends your money, shares your bed.... does nothing in return... and usually buggers off with the next sad sap willing woman that catches his eye

TO BE AVOIDED AT ALL COSTS!!!!

Pays no rent, does no housework, eats everything in sight, drinks your drink, thinks you're lucky to have him, complains if you don't want enough sex with him.

Ha! Also known as an 'easy rider' - I like cocklodger!

Charms you into letting him move in after 5 minutes of a relationship, then once he's got his feet under the table, siphons off you like a sponge.
He's got no time for your kids and expects to be prioritised over them, contributes fuck all finacially or emotionally, doesn't lift a finger to help out...then after all that, tells you you're lucky to have him, before offering you his cock to suck.

There's apparently a lot of it about.

Or you can pick out your own, like I did, and believe he will someday fulfil his potential and become the partner you want.

This is known as being self-deluded

I didn't know the answer to this either!

Whilst asking... What is a bunny boiler!?

A romantic stalker.
Someone you might see a few times, who then won't accept that you don't want to continue the relationship. Becomes obsessed and intense over you.

In the film Fatal Attraction, married Michael Douglas a has a brief sexual affair with Glenn Close. He ends the affair, and amongst the many deranged actions she takes to get his attention and wreak revenge, is to put his daughter's pet rabbit in a pot on his stove and set it to boil, so that his wife discovered the boiled bunny when they come home after a day out.

Thanks for that, not seen the film so hadn't made the connection!

Gold-digger....

the usual adjective is "high maintenance"