Update!

[ihatedarrell]

Hello all. I posted back In june about my ex, affair and violence and had some really really helpful responses. Well that was June, and I just wanted to tell you all that the following has happened in 6 months.

I asked him to leave, as you all suggested!
Saw a solicitor, found out what I was entitled to, that was a surprise!
Told him I wanted a divorce.
Actually got divorced (sept 25th decree absolutet went through) - no I did not stop and pushed it through as quickly as my solicitor said possible!!!
House is mine!

I just wanted to say, it can be done, 2013 is a brand new start for me.

Thank you!

I didn't read your thread at the time, but just wanted to say that I'm glad it's all sorted out, you can start 2013 with a clean slate and feel all the better for it. Well done for being so strong!

'Way to go! Well done you!

Sounds like you had an effective solicitor.

And is your newly recovered single state to your liking?

I remember your thread

Well done

Wha-haaaay! Happy New You!

All good wishes for everything you do this year, and for the update.

Although it's my understanding that it's not considered polite in some quarters to provide links to OPs' previous threads, I can't resist letting the uninitiated see what you've achieved in such a remarkably short time: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1500550-Am-i-strong-enough-to-do-this

You are a one strOONG woman, honey, - and don't you ever forget it!

It's a pleasure to wish you all the happiness in the world because you truly deserve it. Here's to you and here's to yours

Anyone fancy another toast?

Well done and congratulations for having the courage to start a new life!

2013 is your year!

Well done ma'am

I hope you have a fantastic year :)

Hurray!!