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Feel different about sex since his vasectomy

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pleasedtomeetyou · 03/01/2013 02:40

Having made two wonderful children with my husband, who I really love, he had a vasectomy. I hate to admit it, but it's really changed things for me - taken some of the intimacy away (apart from the swimmers!). Am I the only wife in the UK who has experienced this?

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abbierhodes · 03/01/2013 02:46

I get where you're coming from a bit. I think it's kind of biological! Somewhere in your subconscious you know you don't 'need' to do it!
How long has it been since the vasectomy? Because 2 years on I can tell you sex is now amazing! Totally relaxed and stress free. Not bothering to track my periods etc. Life is much easier and this leads to better sex IMO!
I felt like you for a few weeks.

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pleasedtomeetyou · 03/01/2013 02:49

(embarrassed)....four years!

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pleasedtomeetyou · 03/01/2013 02:50

even less of a reason to do it than I did before

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abbierhodes · 03/01/2013 03:07

Oh, well I'm no help then!! Sorry! Grin

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