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Would you rather, love or be loved?

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weevilswobble · 01/01/2013 20:57

Is love ever really 50/50? Does one partner love more? Would you rather be the one that gives more love or receives? Not a deep discussion! Just a thought!

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VerySmallSqueak · 01/01/2013 21:01

When it comes to a partner I would rather be loved than love.

But to love is better than being loved when it comes to children.

Absoluteeightiesgirl · 01/01/2013 21:01

Hmmmm.....strange question. What has prompted you to ask that?

fluffyraggies · 01/01/2013 21:35

With ex I used to be very clearly the one who was the more loved.

With DH it's not so clear. 50/50 i guess. Maybe not. I'd say i love him more. He'd deny this though. But i think i'm right.

What would i rather? Hard to say. It didn't work out with the ex, obviously ...

Interesting question.

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weevilswobble · 01/01/2013 22:14

absoluteeightesgirl i just think too much!

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weevilswobble · 01/01/2013 22:16

verysmallsqueak i totally agree. Good point.

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