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confused.

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dookiedook · 30/12/2012 05:42

Found out tonight my wife of 29 years slept with somebody when we were dating (about 2 months in) I dont know how the hell i feel :(

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4aminsomniac · 30/12/2012 06:03

After 29 years, can you be bothered to feel anything? Has she been faithful since then? I can understand you being a bit hurt, but in the bigger scale of things in your life / marriage does it really matter to you?

Tongue in cheek here; maybe she was just checking that your performance in bed wasn't outshone by other men's performance? Staying with you for 29 years afterwards, I guess you passed the test!

MarjorieAntrobus · 30/12/2012 06:20

I can see that you now might now rethink your memories of your early courtship, and that that might feel a tad painful BUT the fact that you have been together 29 years since the brief infidelity means that it really didn't amount to a great betrayal. Assuming you have been happily married, that is.

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