Deaming about my ex's!!

[jofeb04]

Hiya all
I love my dh dearly, would never think of doing anything that would hurt him.
But, I sometimes dream about my past, and my ex's. Its only about two of them, one of them was much older, the other was my first love I suppose (but not in the way i love my dh, I was only 15!).
I suppose it remembers me that splitting up was the right thing, but why do i still dream about it?
BTW, I am on loads of tablets for pnd and painkillers etc!!
Thanks

I dream about my ex too - and he wasn't a particularly significant one either, but its always him I get randy dreams about rather than my dh

More worrying for me is the dreams I've been having about my friends dh! Not sexy ones or anything, but close and loving. Really need to stop that!

I've always thought that I get weird dreams like that when my hormones are doing funny things, so that might be a reason for you. I wouldn't worry about them though. If they are pleasant dreams, enjoy them !

I dreamt about one of my ex's. We only went out for a few weeks and I ended it before we slept together. I do find myself occasionally thinking of him, but, like a fine wine, he has matured with age and is into rugby etc and has a more muscly toned body.

Oh and his daughter is in the same class as dd so I see him quite often, we are on good terms though.

I havent seen my ex's for years, well before my and dh got together (5years ago)!! So dont have a clue why its happening!!

Oh yea, its nothing sexual, more doing the stuff we used to, going clubbing etc!

Yeh, same here, dh and i used to work together, go on works do's etc together and go clubbing, though we wouldn't dance, just sit in a corner snogging

Dreams are strange strange things, I wouldn't worry!
I dream about a friend of mine ALL the time, I have no sexual feelings for him, but in the land of nod he frequently appears ..
As for DP, in my dreams he's a complete bast*rd! I try to rationalise it by realising he's so wonderful in RL... so my subconscious has to make him bad somewhere.

All this from the woman who frequently dreams the most random things (last night I was mining for apples?!? WTF)
:) x

try not to worry, I have very strange dreams also, and generally they're about people I wouldn't even think of. On friday night I dreamt that Daniel Bedingfield was DH's cousin, wtf? Woke up with one of his bloody songs stuck in my head! lol!

I had a dream about Elton John the other night - still trying to work that one out!!!!

PMSL at 'mining for apples'

I dream about an ex reasonably regularly, not often sexual, and I know it's because things ended poorly between us and I worry about him a lot (he's an alcoholic.

After reading this thread I had a very dirty dream about an ex last night I almost didnt want to wake up and when I did I felt all flustered.

I never dream about my husband! I always dream I am "getting it on" with my male work mates etc!!

Its really nothing to worry about, but if you want these dreams come reality then you should start worrying!

Hiya all
Thx for this, at least i know im not the only one who does it lol