My sister's boyfriend

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Found out this morning that my sisters boyfriend had a huge fight with my other sister when they were all on holiday. He grabbed her and went to put his arms round her neck and she slapped him, he then threatened to throw her off the balcony.

She was 20 at the time and he was 34. Now I realise why youngest sister hates middle sisters boyfriend!

Youngest sister was wrong to slap him, but I do believe it was in self defence. I am furious with him. He will be there all through this meal later. I am not especially close to my sisters, but I am hugely protective over them.

No one else knows apart from my sisters and him. My family is terrible for secrets and cover ups! So will have to act all normal. But I just wanted to get my anger out on here!

Twat. Do you like him generally? Or did you already know he was a bully? Are you worried about your sister (his GF)?

A friend's husband slapped her sister the night before their wedding during an argument. Now the husband slaps my friend, his wife.

I fully accept that your sister slapped your other sister's boyf in self defence, but how does the boyf treat your sister? If he is prepared to fight physically with one woman, I have no doubt he will do it to the other.

I would tell him that I know what he did. Unfortunately to protect my friend I cannot tell her fucker of a husband I know that he hits her. Jesus, I hate him.

I always thought he was a bit annoying and odd, but no never seen any bullying sides to him.

Need to leae soon to go back to house where he is, I want to pin him against a wall and warn him against going near my baby sister. Not that I would do that as that would make me as bad as him, and I am 5ft4 and he is a lot bigger, and I would burst out crying!

I am keeping my eye on him. I don't feel guilty now for giving him a recycled present!

I don't feel guilty now for giving him a recycled present!

Brilliant!