I am a longtime lurker but have never had a reason to post before now. i have been with my boyfriend for two years and we were planning to get married next year. But I don't think that will happen now because I think there is someone else.
About two months ago he started a new job and has been doing a lot of overtime so he normally gets in after I have gone to bed. He has been less affectionate but I put that down to the stress of the job. Also we have hardly had sex lately.
A couple of weeks ago he got a new phone and he never lets it out of his sight. Alwady in his pocket when he leaves the room and he has started to lock it which he never did before. When i asked he said it was because it is a work phone but he works in a bar so I don't see how that would work. He is always talking about people at work but clams up whenever I ask any questions particular questions about.
I think that he must be having an affair, but I might be overreacting. I just need some advice.