Yesterday. He was getting ready to leave for London for work yesterday..(He stays in london Mon-thursday sometimes leaving sunday night) So he was in a mood because he hates going on a sunday.
He was in upstairs bathroom and I was outside on landing ironing his shirt. DD aged 12 was coming up the stairs and he shouted at her to go get him mouthwash from down stairs bathroom. She asked him where abouts it was...He shouted "Just open your eyes and look" As he was standing next to me nearly burst my eardrum.
I turned to him and calmly said "please dont shout, she is asking because its dark in the bathroom"..(lights broke)
He glared at me and stormed back in the bathroom shouthing "fucking cunt"
DD Shouted up the stairs "dont say that to mum" and DH poked head round door glaring at me and said to me "you just cant help yourself can you"
He got in shower..i finished ironing shirt and pretended to dd that i was fine. We sat in car in silence on way to train station. I felt relief when he got out and dd and I chatted happily all the way home.
But I cant stop thinking about it and hearing the nasty way he said it. He has called me that maybe twice before in our 20 years together.
I have had no apology, no text, no email, iam not even going to pick up if he calls me this week.
Please be gentle..feeling fragile today...Am I over reacting to THAT word?
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Dh called me a fucking cunt.
sallyanne06 · 03/12/2012 11:53
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IUsedToBe - it's really not nice dragging old relationship threads up, why didn't you just PM the OP if you really had to know what happened and your comment is really ODD 
Plus, it's bloody annoying to read the whole damn thing to realise it's years old and you can't actually help the OP 
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