This is my first post and I joined mumsnet to find out about the following. For some time now my 60 year old husband has been unable to achieve a proper erection in that he can't achieve penetration. It's erect enough for me to bring him to orgasm. An associated problem is that I've noticed I can't retract his foreskin. A further problem is that his foreskin is red and (I'm not sure how else to describe it) his skin looks different in that it looks 'shiney'. Have others met this problem and how have they dealt with it? Please help.