Okay so had date today the guy comes over as nice friendly and bit too keen, to cut along story short he was trying to impress me I get that , then ends up telling me how he is trying to work the system to gain a flat to live in hence he is only renting the one he is in now, i feel he went from one extreme to the other and kept asking me if I would like to see him again , dont get me wrong it is flattering but I could not condon what he is doing when I know a few woman who have had abusive relationships , are on their own with there kids and are homeless and struggling to find a proper home for their kids , it just peed me off that someone could be so blatant about this , I mean I thought dates were supposed to be fun!!.