Ok, to cut a long story short, My husband is an engineer, got called out early am this morning, came home about 5am, went back to work at 11am and is still not home now. I called him just before 9pm to see how work was going and he said, I am just going to a hotel for some dinner with a guy I've been working with, will be a couple of hours..he's still not back. Should I be nice to him when he comes home, or am I right to be pee'd off that he didn't let me know his plans?