Ok now, is it just me

[hmmmmreally]

or, well, you know when you get into that whole new relationship/casual dating thing, and you get down to the nitty gritty, (after the man promising oh such wonderous things) is it just me that ends up feeling somewhat let down

Ime first time sex with a new bloke is awkward and a tad embarrising. Gets better with lots of practice [hgrin]

You get good sex through complete emotional trust. Hence, I never see the point of ONSs.