Sleeping with someone you hate...

[VeryProbablyStupid]

Its clearly a bad idea yes?

I have just started sleeping with ExP, even though we really do not get on and haven't been able to have a conversation for three years.

We are both single, we used to have excellent sex (pretty much the only good thing in our entire history) and somehow the other night we bumped into eachother and it happened.

Now, I cant see this ending well... Is it possible to just truly be 'friends with benefits' or whatever people call it now? Obviously things are hugely complicated by the fact we have a child together.

I think he is sleeping with someone you hate......you :-(
I hope you can learn to like yourself xx

I liked what mushroom said. Four words, but so much wisdom. Stop.

ok, i know!

I called it off, well I tried. I was under the impression it was just sex, but he thinks/thought we might be getting back together? I told him no. He took it well (I think he thinks Ill cave again soon, and I cant really blame him for thinking that given my recent behaviour can I!) and we have decided to be 'friends' now. Which can only be a good thing as we were not even speaking before this, and one of the issues surrounding DS and access etc has been sorted due to our communication lately.

anxious80, thank you for understanding, it is not so far fetched an idea is it? Hehe, but yes, I know it was wrong. In my weak defence I was very drunk!