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Different desires

6 replies

carolthatcher2003 · 02/01/2004 15:10

Has anyone got a success story about this?

There are ever such a lot of messages here from MNs who have hubbies who want "it" all the time, and a few who have it the other way round - has anyone ever managed to solve this, either by doing it less, or more, or something?

DH clearly wants to make love and hold hands and stuff all the time, and I have tried and tried and tried, but I just don't ever seem to fancy "it" no matter how much I wish I did.

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Northerner · 02/01/2004 15:12

Have you changed your name for this thread?

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carolthatcher2003 · 02/01/2004 15:15

No, I'm what you'd call an occasional, only been here a few weeks

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Northerner · 02/01/2004 15:16

So are you THE Carol Thatcher?

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carolthatcher2003 · 02/01/2004 15:17

Oh, I see, no.

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NewThinnerDragon · 02/01/2004 15:19

Hi CT2003... Assuming you have children/are pregnant, how old are they/how pregnant are you?

Northerner · 02/01/2004 15:20

Ok.

My dh has a much bigger libido than me and would do it every night if I consented! I reckon that as a Mum I have so much to do thst sex just seems like another 'chore' and I rarely feel like it. It usually happens if I've been on a night out and come home in my glad rags feeling a bit tipsy. Never when I'm in my old trackie bottoms and a snot covered sweatshirt!

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