DH checks everything I write / text / message etc.,
His opinion is that I cannot be trusted.
Recent issue, sent friendly text to a workman (but when I say workman, I am refering to someone who has worked in our house FT for 9+ months, become a really good family friend, and text was in relation to childcare)
My POV: I am pissed off he checks everything I write or send and then we have the spanish inqusition about what I meant by it
His POV: I am pissed off that you think it's somehow a bigger issue that I have looked than the content of what I have found.
THe content is NOTHING. NOTHING. Other than it paints him in less than favourable light. There is NO suggestion (now confirmed by me, the workman in question plus all others involved) of anything EVER having gone on. DH is just naffed off that he has come out of this looking a bit shit (IMO rightly so)
SO, am I BU.? I really don't think so.