Genital Warts/HPV

[Suekins]

Obviously this is very embarrassing and I have gone anon to post.

My DP has what I think are genital warts. I've not mentioned it to him yet as...well I don't really know how to broach the subject. AF has saved me for the past week but I will need to tell him very soon I know, I have a few Q's before I do.

What does he need to do? Go to the family planning clinic? He has never been to our GP in all the years we've lived together, he won't know where to start. I don't think for a moment that he's been unfaithful. As I understand it this is a dormant virus - I am more worried whether I've given it to him as I have been treated for CIN3 since we've been together but I don't know if the same kind of HPV causes GW or whether it's a completely different strain . If I've not given it to him and it's the latter, will I have contracted it? I don't have them but we have had unprotected sex for years. I am due a smear next week so will mention this all to the nurse then.

I feel really bad for my DP, he will be mortified.

You can gw inside the vigina so you would not know it's there

Have you or he ever had genital warts before OP? Before you met?

If not I’d definitely be asking questions and looking back at past behaviour. Also why was he aware of it (and let you get close enough to see it!) but hadn’t done anything about it or told you.

I’d go batshit actually. You seem to be blaming yourself .

IT’S FROM 2012

IT’S FROM 2012