To all those women with useless, pathetic, lying, cheating men, let them go. Do not try to hang on to your relationships. It doesn't work. You might have a year or two of fantastic sex, serious conversation (or so you think) but it all comes to nothing. They will still want more than you can give them. Let them go off and try and find what isn't there. And don't let them come crawling back, because they will try.