Dh and ahem the bedroom.........

[wednesdaygirl]

Dh is having probs with keeping it hard

We have been together nearly 18yrs, on saturday we were just getting it together when it went floppy, i carried on kissing him but he had lost it

Since then he gets worried he will lose it then he does

We normally have sex at least once a day (maybe ive worn him out)

Does this happen to other men? He did this once before a few years ago and the more he thinks about it the longer it goes on for

Ive told him to chill out and forget about it but he said he cant stop thinking about it

[VoterColonelSebastianDoyle]

Wow op i've been with my dp for 4 years and we barely do it twice a week (we are co sleeping with our 2 year old at the moment not for long hopefully)

[wednesdaygirl]

Good idea pan thank you

Maybe the suggestion of no sex only cuddles will help him x

I dont want him to think its a big deal as he is only 37 so still young yet and we go to the gym 3 times a week si generally fit BUT he does smoke (about 5 a day)

[wednesdaygirl]

Abit yes he dies snore but not as loud as me