I know i'm going to sound like a selfish bitch but I'm sorry i can't help it.
DH has had a vasectomy without consulting me he just wnet ahead.
I thought I'd talked him into a reversal but the truth is he just doesn't want anymore children and wants to go back to University instead.
So basically he's totally gone back on the discussions/life we planned together we had when we were engaged.
I know things change and people change but this isn't something I can let go :(