Ive realised i don't need proof....

[butterflyings]

I've long suspected my h of having had some kind of affair, emotional or otherwise and had even posted here about it but asked for it to be deleted when I was berated for not making him feel wanted enough

Anyway, I appear to have had some kind of Epiphany overnight and realised that I just don't need to prove it. I know its happened, as does he and that's enough. I just don't care anymore.

It has taken me over a year to feel like this! I can end things just because I'm unhappy. I don't need to be hurt more to 'prove it'.

I think what you have said is so important
You can drive yourself nuts trying to prove stuff, but if you are unhappy and things are not right, you don't need an excuse or an 'out'

Good for you butterflyings. :) A step towards happiness.

So many of us wait for a reason, when the reason is already in front of us (ie, not happy, and had enough!)

Very true, LadyWordy.