What to do

[Wat2do]

This is dp question, left my wife for ow, stbx ex w hates me and new girlfriend, been together 12 months, how long does it take?

What a catch, Mellower. I bet you had him back like a shot! :o

The one thing I will say for you, OP, at least it sounds as if you want to remain activly involved in your DCs' lives, which of course you should be. My STBXH is coming to take DS for the weekend at 1 p.m. on Saturday. It will be the first time he'll have seen him in FIVE weeks, despite telling him in June he'd be up every other weekend :(.

I have no eggs to poach. Should I go to the shop?

Yeah right, it did cross my stupid incapacitated mind though!!

Shops - eggs: Is it still raining? I have been waiting to go since 9am!

I have bacon and wholemeal bread but no butter only low fat spread.

Oh bacon yummy,I was ukltra greedy hungry yesterday and told myselef it was a shame to leave just 2 bits of bacon left so ate all 6 bits with one egg and 4 slices of erm... something bread not wholemeal...oh seeded that's the one.

It has not stopped raining here but may run down and get some bacon.

Or may go put onesie on and watch all soaps!!

Hmm I may wake hungry though.

blasted decisions !!

lots of typos!!!! No excuse.

creameggetheif mine do not see their sperm donor any longer as he was much the same, so unfair to play with such young minds, escpailly when they are waiting with their jackets on etc. He also decided to go live with a methadone addict. Her children are in care.... so "no contact". My 12 year old wants it this way so...

*especially

OP are you Sperm donor? Oh no you said 12 months sorry not

So sorry to hear that, Mellower WTF was he thinking, choosing someone like that?

I know it's not much comfort, but it sounds like you're all better off without him...

DS hasjust moaned about his dad, "I don't know why he bothers ringing when he has nothing to say". I said, "Well he probably just wanted to hear your voice", but I can't help thinking the less you see of someone, the less you have to say to them and STBXH has brought it all on himself...

Yeah I do feel for the children. ITs g/friend is just as bad though, choosing IT over her dc IT is the reason they are in care, we are well rid!!

Back to the children though, even my 12 year old said lasty week "I like it better just the 3 of us" What to say? ditto!!

When he did have 2 supervised visits he asked youngest about me, 12 year old said "oh is that when you punched mum when we had the white computer?" (Thankfully MIL stepped in and asked IT to leave) DS was 3 at the time...I had blocked it out, he hasn't, it would seem, getting lots of help now though, so all good. Still to hear back from Courts 7 weeks after telling him "no unsupervised contact".

Anyway, wonder why Mr full of regret (OP) hasn't came back.

Oh and IT loves to tell me how much my DC will hate me when they are older. Which makes sense, obviously!