I have been with my husband nearly 8 years, married for 3!! At first it was great, i was madly in love!! I already had 2 children and husband and i went on to have 2. He has been only working for the last two years and has worked up the ladder quite rapidly, gaining a supervising post!!! Our youngest is only 5 months!! I never see my husband, he works all the time says its for the family!! He never does anything but talk about himself and his oh so wonderful job!! He never seems interested in any of us specially not me!! He uses me all the time!! He lies all the time, i even have to collect him from work at 11pm with two very small children!! He would never have put on me like that years ago!! He is selfish!!! I a bit lost? Stay? Ride it out?? Or leave? I only in my 30,s and wear my heart on my sleeve!! Well did, not Soooo much now