My relationship came to a point where I don't want to talk whit out mediation. I have suggested counselling in the past but OH dismissed as he doesn't want to tell 'other people' about his problems,he worries to much about what people thinks of him, and this is one of the things in my extended list that makes me loose interest in him. Anyway, I was having a look at the Relate website and saw that they offer this personality report for £20, you need to answer an online questionnaire and will receive it by email. They say it will help you to see how you are perceived by other people and therefore understand yourself better and change your attitude. Just now wondering if anyone done this and if it I'd worth the money? Maybe if it is any good and I convince OH to do it, he might be more open minded about seeing a counsellor. ...I might do one for myself anyway but would like to see peoples opinions beforehand. Sorry for not been very articulate about this as English is not my 1st language. TIA