does your man ACTUALLY do it for you???

[Reallyyyy101]

I swear my dp doesn't actually know what he's doing in bed even though I've told him countless times what to do, pretty Much given up now!!

I watched a program the other night and it said 70% of men don't know how to please a woman when it comes to sex!! ....SERIOUS?????

despite my dp saying he wants me to enjoy it it's pretty damm difficult when he does what he does!!! he's had a fair few relationships before so how can he not know a females anatomy!!!

so come on... does your man do it for you?? is there ANY HOPE?? or is it time to start faking it??

It's too early in the morning!
Can't you just leave cosmo lying around
That's what we did back in the day

This reads like a cheesy magazine article

You should think about giving him gentle instructions. Not moaning that he does it all wrong. Or faking anything.

That's nice, but I love it when you do XYZ
Carry on doing that, it's nice
I prefer it when you do ABC

It doesn't have to need talking dirty just a bit of guidance

Sorry if you were looking for dirty talk, you need to come back on Friday nights for that here

Yeah mine knows what he is up to and what I like. I think most men do its just a question of whether they can actually be bothered to do it.

Indeed, because good sex is solely a thing a man does to a woman and so if there are any issues in the bedroom it is, of course, entirely his fault.

Hang on a minute...

yes he does and always has really

to not know is laziness

Yep. He made a point of finding out what worked early on and continues to find new things even I didn't think would.
But if your DPs instincts are a bit out then do what Moaning suggested.

Stop telling him what to do and start showing him......

Ahh,Kitten,sound advice

1/10

When I met my current gentleman caller it was clear he had some raw talent but needed refinement. With lots of patience, practice and encouragement, he's improved greatly. My masterpiece

Tell em, snorbs.

Yep we met at 18 but since the first few weeks after we got together he has made me orgasm every time.Its not rocket science.

Oh really please, you seem quite immature yourself, so it seems that there is no help for you
I guess your first post and all that, right!?

Yes, yes, no.

reallyyyy what do you care, if our men do it for us?!

Yours is not doing it for you, so get rid.

faking it, what is that going to achieve, is still not doing it for you, right?!

But maybe reading about others and their doings is going to do it for you then

You would think a journo would do their own research.....lazy!

Yes. He's amazing. I'm just not in the mood at 34 wks preg withSPD

It is still the school holidays

helen I think so, too

Actually, my reply should have been:

Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, YES!!!