Honey traps and stunning women aplenty - dating thread 20!

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20!!!!!!

Bloody hell :)

Mr Overall has spent today texting me filth,

Are you replying accordingly, or changing the subject?

And what kind of filth? That would please you, or him? Because there is a difference.

oh god yes, the 'stockings' are a bit risque for a celebration of ones chastity just before one gently relinquishes your virginity...

more like this we can all choose the shade of a colour that suits us. what do you think watch-rock-wife

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!! No! Snape cannot jilt PM, Leuji he is adorable, he is lovely. Snape and PM 4eva!!

If there is a 2nd date I doubt there will be a 3rd!

Baby steps, first getting the 2nd date, then think of getting a 3rd and so on.

I saw some fabulous bright pink doc Marten type boots today that would go fab with those frocks

Leuji How PM and I met would be the prequel. :-)

we met on a course and sat next to each other, lots of sparky arguing, went back to find we had been allocated rooms next to each other (residential course) went to dinner, only one seat left at the table, next to him. went to the bar for a drink - one by one people peeled off leaving us drinking alone. I went downstaisr to the loo and was accosted on the stairs by a potato, 'alright darlin! wow! look at your tattoos, you're gorgeous! can i buy you a drink?' me: oh. umm. thank you, thats very kind, I'm afraid I'm upstairs with my husband.

ran back upstairs and told PM in giggles (bit drunk at the time..) potato comes over to the table to chat, 'you've got a princess there mate, you treat her right and don't let her get away!' PM takes my hand in his, interlocks fingers and promises he'll do just that.

we sat up on a bench in the grounds of the training school until 4AM. next day we're both ridiculously hung over, constantly filling silly little cups from a water cooler for each other, everyone there thinks we've done it and when i kick over my water because i'm a terrible klutz, he went and got a paper towel and cleaned it up. wham that was it.

now.

I just don't like those stockings with those dresses. I think they look tacky, at least for a wedding.

For moi, bright red, salmon or coral (but more on the orange than pink).

I like the top ones: kgmackenzie.blogspot.pt/2011/07/coral-bridesmaid-dresses.html

i want to get married now. [wetfish] purely because of dresses

That is lovely Snape. How can PM possibly not realise that you are destined to be together!! How??

I want you to get married too!

hello. marking my place in new thread (have gone back to old mn name) am havin a dilemma - so guy I met on POF about 7 weeks ago and have been seeing a few times a week for past 5 weeks... has so far been all good, he's taken me out for dinner, been to his and he's cooked me lunch.. BUT, he went on holiday last week and whilst there he kept in contact by text a lot.. and a few times in the late evenings after he'd had one too many beverages he would ring me and we'd chat for a couple of hours at a time.. and he would tell me he thought he's fallen for me.. I'd got under his skin.. he felt vulnerable and that he thought he loved me... when sober he said the same apart from the love bit. so he came home and we did the dinner thing etc ;) and then this week he had hardly sent any messages at all.. then sends me a message saying his head is all over the place,, his sorry he's been a bit quiet it's not my fault I've done nothing wrong but he wants to have a think about things and sort his head out (it would also be his and his ex's anniversary this week - they were together about 15 yrs). I've not replied to this message at all. if he wants space he can have space but I don't think he's over his ex if he's getting a bit upset over an anniversary. theyve been split 6 months.. I don't want to be a rebound thing. what would you do? just not reply to the sorry it's not you it's me text..

Six months isn't very long in the grand scheme of things, he may well not have got over his ex. I would reply, because I think that's the polite thing to do after you have spent some nice times together, and he is being honest with you. And maybe he will be in touch when he has worked out what he wants, then you can pick up where you left off If you want to of course.

That is lovely, Snape. Ahhhh

Meanwhile, I am getting a bit freaked out.

Mr Kippling suggested going to my place Friday night, after his dad's birthday, and leave Monday morning for work.

Not sure I'll cope with having someone around the whole time.
I think it will be make or break.
Or at least some getting out of the house somewhere romantic where people who know my parents won't be.

In any case, he's already been drafted to help with some DIY.
And he volunteered to do the weekend cleaning while I go to my Saturday training session.

hello Worley.

to be honest I wouldnt reply. i think you're right that he either isnt over his ex and he's had plenty of opportunity to get over his ex by seeing you - or he's panicking about falling for you. I'd give him as much space as he wants to be honest.

time oh, i know. he seems to have this ridiculous idea that he doesnt fancy me. picky sod! I'm so ripe i'm about to fall off of the tree! on Mr Staines

Snape I think he is head over heels in love with you and the feelings are soooo strong they both overwhelm and scare him.

I do hope Mr Staines lives up to your expectations of him!

leuji if you don't feel comfortable with him parking his slippers at your place for the weekend, then say no. I would! There's plenty of time for that sort of thing

Worley,

I think I'd reply with: that's fine, wish you happiness.
Or along those lines.

Time wrt private question thingy, it's the little square box just above the 'Explain your answer' box. If you don't tick it it makes your questions public so people can see your answers.

snape that's a love story all right. How can PM not see how perfect you are for each other.

watch re bridesmaid dresses, no pale pink pls. I look like death warmed up in it, bright colours are best

With regard to bridesmaid dresses, how about a nice berry shade, it's very 'in' at the moment.

Thanks for that Chaotic

It's more about taking advantage of DS being away.
It doesn't happen often. Well, ever except Summer holidays.

We did spend quite a lot of time the other weekend and it was fine. Only, I had to leave to my holiday again.

DS cannot know about him and me, because he will tell ex (as any 7 year old would), and he will be back next weekend, probably.

We'll see how it goes.
For now, I'm going to park my slippers I knew I had forgotten something tonight at his place and drive back to town with him in the morning.
And yes, I have remembered to bring a change of clothes.

And I'm off.

My highest match is currently 99.27%.

Lueji have fun.

Wrt wedding dresses...is it possible to dye them?

Worley: Ive been in your situation. Its anxiety provoking. But I think I would send something like Lueji suggested.

Yes, have fun leuji How long have you been separated from your ex? I used to worry about my ex finding out things about me but now, 2 and half years on, I couldn't give a damn. My life is my business and if he doesn't like it, it's his problem not mine. I used to be scared of him, but not any more!

Chaotic I would imagine it is possible to dye wedding dresses, in the bath, with loads of Dylon. You could end up with matching hands, that would be a very nice look

right, I'm off. eep!

Knowing me I'd end up matching head to toe