Honey traps and stunning women aplenty - dating thread 20!

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20!!!!!!

Bloody hell :)

Well done mini lubey :)

Snape don't forget he thinks he is part of a honey trap and that your are madly in love with someone else. He may really like you but be thinking he is setting himself up to get hurt. You have to show him you are genuinely interested in him.

Brilliant Lubey

I am genuinely interested in him, but I think the best way of showing that is crotch to crotch face to face. I just need to reel him in

Last nights text from me read,

'so absolutely lovely to meet you, even if my honey-trap is in disarray'

him: yes, what a terrific evening, you're lovely snape :) sleep tight and chat
tomorrow x'

argh!

:) Lubey and mini-lubey

Quite frankly, it took 6 months for me and ex to sleep in the same bed and we only had full on intercourse when we got married.
What for?

I really don't care this time.
Never mind rules.

BTW, I totally understand what you are saying about ex, (and it's not preventing me from doing things, really) but it's not ultimately about him but DS and making his life easier.

That's lovely Snape. He will be in touch, I'm sure of it. You have to be patient I'm afraid

well done the lubey family!!!! :)

snape - that sounds good, and that he will chat to you, i think it will all be fine, just be patient... its not even lunch time yet :)

Leuji - with your DS, does he see his dad? it doesnt sound like it, bar skype, is he permitted unsupervised access? Totally understand where you are coming from, not saying you should introduce them more than you already have at all. But, if this is on the cards, it might be best to try and work out how you might play it, or if not with mrk, what might happen if you meet someone in the future.

Snape i just scrolled back for your update - wow wow wow! :o

Thanks all re: my DD. I wanted to update here just as further proof that single parent familes can ROCK :o

Yeah Lubey!! Single parent families do indeed rock!!

Its on my profile now. Please dont moan at me.
lubey well done mini lubey. Glad she done well, of course its all in the mothering though

Of course we rock

MLM you're going to have to make your profile public, if you want us to see it.

lubey i can get a bit soap box about this (!) everyone is so quick to point the finger when children from single parent families do bad things - the riots last summer were a case in point, but no-one ever makes the point about success in single parent families because they are over-whelmingly led by strong focussed women who absolutely always put their child first. loads of olympic atheletes came from single parent households (Bradley Wiggins being a strong case in point.) I'm from a single parent family. I'm tipped for the senior civil service. the professor is from a single parent family, he's oxbridge, was an engineering lecturer at a top russell group uni and is now an absolute leader in his chosen field even if he cant use a phone or email We should celebrate our amazing achievements, but we're too busy raising our incredible kids to blow our trumpets loudly.

what is this 'patient' of which you speak? I can't even look at a wall without thinking about throwing him up against it.

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Just made it public didnt know i needed to feel stupid. cant see my face. might have to upload some more pics as well.

its still not public

Its on my profile page, at the bottom under view my photos's there is three there now, two of me and one of DS, I dunno how to do this, grrr. its difficult.

I could see the pics MLM

so non-dating related question. If your DCs still have regular contact with your ex, regular overnights, he still shares a certain amount of parental responsibility even though you are the primary caretaker (and do 150% 90% of the work/childcare/homework/support/school runs/parties/driving/extra curricular etc etc) - do you consider yourself a single parent family?

MLM ahw! look at your wee boy!

and that is relatively restrained for schoolgirl fetishing, so well done! ;-)

Yes, because you're not in a relationship.

yes, course. if the household is headed up by one person, then yes, thats a single parent family.

yoga absolutely. we're all lumped in together I'm afraid, so those who maintin a reasonable relationship with the ex and have a degree of shared care are lumped alongside (generally) women who are absolutely abandonned by sperm-donor-dads. there are degrees as there are degrees of anything...

mlm - not bad, its not that risque at all.

new message on OKC, clicked on his profile to find...

'I do not suffer fools, if I tried to message you and you did not respond don't expect a second attempt...'

'Don't even expect a mail telling you what I wanted to say or ask, if it wasn't good enough at the time...

I seriously doubt you would have understood the humour anyway.

My baggage is the responsibility for the future of a young boy who's mother is determined to sideline me, if you are not sure what that means google 'Passive Alienation Syndrome'

oh! be still my beating heart!

MLM your DS is gorgeous :) You've got the outfit right too.

Love the pics MLM, gorgeous DS!

Snape - didn't say I had a reasonable relationship with my ex - he has proved himself to be an unreasonable, manipulative bastard. However, he is trying hard to be a decent dad and has a good relationship with the kids. But got it now, so we are a single parent family. I can live with that.