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What should I think of this? Perspective needed please

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GrizzlyFrontBum · 19/08/2012 04:49

Im overdue. So not rational. Hot. Tired. Etc

Dp is asleep.

I've just been looking through his phone. (left openly around - he's told me the pass word before)
Mainly snooping to see what witchy shit my MIL has been emailing to him. Any way.. I digress.

DP has been forwarding all the photos I email to him of the DC to one particular other person. A colleague.
Of whom I've never met. He requests photos some times - "send me a photo I miss you guys"

But there is one photo that doesnt sit right. Last week DP and our youngest were asleep when I got up - I took a photo, they were snuggled together is was really really cute, both faces inches from each other with dd2s hand on his cheek. (crisp white bed linen - sunny room, looked staged!!) any way. I sent this to him Monday morning as he had left for work dd2 had a melt down etc and he said he hated leaving - so I sent him the picture via email sayIng love you have a good day.

He's obviously Topless - Although photo of him is just his face / torso -
He sent this photo to that woman at work too!??

I mean - why would some one at work want to see intimate photos like that?

Do tell me to get a grip if you like. I shan't be sending any more pictures though.

OP posts:
Alurkatsoftplay · 19/08/2012 13:18

Well, I think sending pics and saying to your dp, "oh blah blah loved the pics, she wants to see more..." is very different from requesting pics and then repeatedly sending them on to the same person with no mention of it to dp.
It suggests at least a lack of boundaries/communication.

Yogagirl17 · 19/08/2012 19:24

How are you Grizzly? Wondering if no posts today means you've gone into labour and at least have other things to worry about at the moment..? Hope you're ok. x

GrizzlyFrontBum · 19/08/2012 20:18

Nope. I'd very much like to evict this baby now.

OP posts:
Alurkatsoftplay · 20/08/2012 09:15

Hope you feeling well grizzly. Not long now, surely!

Yogagirl17 · 21/08/2012 09:18

How are you Grizzly?

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