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Have I blown it? Girlfriend material to f*** Buddy material?

29 replies

RedChin · 05/08/2012 14:46

Know a guy two weeks. Been out with him 5 times - in that time we've done cinema, bowling, 2 meals, an all night drinking pubcrawl, walk on the beach and a music festival. We talk everyday via facebook and text. I really like him and he seems to really like me.
So last night he's driving us to another nice destination and I ask him what time I should tell my babysitter I'll be back. He says it's completely upto me - he will get me back any time I want. It goes back and forth a bit and he then says "well if your babysitter is staying all night, would you like to stay at my house?"

I know I've only known him two weeks but I wanted to. I agreed.
After our date we go back to his house, watch a DVD, have some drinks and then end up having sex 4 times over the course of the night Shock he was very loving, lots of cuddles, constantly making sure I was ok, fetching me drinks etc and we had a really lovely night. He was still very loving towards me this morning.

He's just sent me a text now saying he had a fantastic night and had the best time ever. I'm thinking "shit, I've crossed the line from girlfriend material to fuck buddy material". Am I over thinking it or have I blown any chance of a real relationship with this guy?

OP posts:
PinkChampagneandStrawberries · 05/08/2012 19:01

I had sex in the first date Blush and we are still together 9 years later don't worry he sound like a lovely guy. Relax and enjoy it Grin

Spice17 · 05/08/2012 19:57

I met and slept with my DH on the same night and then all of that weekend, not proud of that really! Blush

We've been together 10 years and married for 3 and I love him more than anything in the world.

What you've done is more 'normal' I would say! Go for it and good luck

Spice17 · 05/08/2012 19:59

Whoa - lots of us have done it on the first night and then got married - we must be good in bed! Grin

TellyBug · 05/08/2012 20:01

There is no problem here. Sounds like he likes you!

Being hard work would be worse, so just calm down a bit. Wink

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