I recently went on a date with a guy I met on an online dating site. We had one date, it was nice, we got on well etc. We met up briefly the next day too. He is in the forces, so a few days later he got posted to the olympics until the end of September. We talk on the phone and text etc, although that is starting to fade a little now, because its hard to maintain long distance when you have pretty much only met once!
I am still on the site, and another guy and I have been chatting, and now he has asked me out.
I don't know if it is mean to the first guy to go on a date with the second? We have obviously not discussed being exclusive as we have only been on one and a half dates. Whats the etiquette here? Do I have to tell both guys about the other one? Or am I allowed to go on a few dates and then pursue one man? The only RL person I asked said anyone on online dating is talking to more than one person, so its ok.
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online dating, can i date two?
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singsingdeathhouse · 02/08/2012 21:50
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