swearing during sex

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I've never experience this before....a man who frequently says 'fuck' and 'shit' during sex. Not sure how to take it?!
He doesn't swear at all during normal conversation!

As long as it's not both words together like 'fuck my shit', it wouldn't bother me particularly, although I suppose it could lead to misunderstandings. You think he's having a good time but he's actually broken his willy or whatever

Oh no not like that at all! He just seems a bit overwhelmed and keeps saying it!

Wouldn't like that. Not at all. Is he swearing at you, or just exclaiming? Either way I would be not keen.

no, not swearing at me at all. def exclaiming!

I would take it that he is enjoying it!

I get called everything from a fucking whore to a dirty slut with lots of fucks inbetween. I always take it as a compliment.

If I was swore at or called those things whilst not in the bedroom I would be extremely offended.

If you're having a bit of rough headboard clanging it could be quite sensual.

However if it's candles, foam bath and Chris De Burgh, then yes, that might throw the mood somewhat....

Does he even know he's doing it?

Try doing it back.....?

He crtainly seems to be enjoying it! It's not agressive in the slightest, was just a bit surprised as not come accross it before.

Fuck is ok not sure about shit though how does that fit into the moment?

think it's just an exclamation!

It's just an expression of him enjoying himself, that's all.

I wouldn't like being called names but things like "fuck" are fine IMO. All part of the dirty talk thing.

I turn into a bit of a potty mouth during the throes of passion but am completely nice and uncoarse outside of sex. I'd just take it that he's caught up in the moment, enjoying himself and feels comfortable with you.

I think I'd PMSL if my D.H.did that He swears so infrequently that when he does say the odd bloody,usually under his breath,it sounds hilarious.Seriously though it sounds rather unpleasant so if you don't like it have a word with him.

Sounds fine to me. You're obviously good at what you do, OP

I'd still be tempted to try doing it back ....

I agree that shit would sound weird whereas fuck i would probably quite like!

Shit is wrong. Trying to imagine it...yep, very wrong.

I never ever swear in real life, except that one time when I stepped on a mega block. But I do in sex talk, especially sext talking. ;-)

Hmm i'm not so sure about "shit" either! It's like he's totally overwhelmed with the whole thing! id rather he said something nice and personal about me thought tbh, rather than swearing! i suppose the odd "fuck" is ok..

'Fuck' is my expletive of choice during sex. There's something just right about the hard consonants, and I rarely swear normally, so it still holds a bit of rudeness. I never considered whether it would offend DH, just something I'm used to doing. 'Shit' sounds weird to me, it reminds me of the bodily function which I wouldn't want to be thinking about at that point!

As long as it was "fuuuuuuuucccckkk" and not "FUCK" that's fine and as long as "shit" isn't related to losing the condom...

I do this all the time. Fuck.. Shit... Oh my fucking god I can't fucking believe it... Shit..

That's me! :o

fuck is ok, i like it actually - but shit is something you say when you drop somehting!

I swear all the time during sex, eg. "Oh shit, I'm so fucking gooooood!"

tell him that you'd rather he said "fiddlesticks" and "sugar"

now that's just silly ;)
i guess i don't mind him saying the odd 'fuck', but would be good if he sid something about me too!

Take it as a compliment dont read to much into it, if you are both enjoying it carry on!