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Female ejaculation? Has this happenned to you?

36 replies

Shutupalittlebit · 11/07/2012 22:59

Hi TMI alert. I have nc for this as although I am usually very open about things, I feel quite embarrassed about this.

I was having sex last night and during penetrative sex I had a build up of extreme pleasure feeling more and more turned on and into it and then suddenly a gush of fluid ran out of my vagina. WTF?

There was enough of it to make a large wet patch on the bed. Clear fluid. Has never happened before. Felt a bit awkward as I am now worried I wet myself! Googled it and female ejaculation came up. Never heard of it before

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Socknickingpixie · 11/07/2012 23:07

its normal and feels good,clearly nobody hit the spot befor but just enjoy it when it happens

Nobhead · 11/07/2012 23:07

Never experienced this myself but I have heard of it. Lucky you I say Envy

Krumbum · 11/07/2012 23:08

I haven't but I know people that have. It usually happens with g spot stimulation. I'd love to get vaginal orgasms! Try again!

Shutupalittlebit · 11/07/2012 23:10

Normal? I had not realised that could happen at all! Where does the fluid come from though if it is not wee? I am pretty sure it wasn't wee as I had a good look at the sheets this morning...

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Claire2009 · 11/07/2012 23:12

Yes, once. It's called squirting I think.

RantyMcRantpants · 11/07/2012 23:13

Yep! Perfectly normal occurrence for some ladies. I am a regular ejaculator and love it. Embrace it and go for more if you can.

Shutupalittlebit · 11/07/2012 23:14

It was a sort of orgasm i think Krumbum but not like a clitoral one.

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Shutupalittlebit · 11/07/2012 23:16

Oh, thanks for that Ranty -I'd be up for more but am sliiightly embarrassed as to what my DP thinks of it!

Claire 2009. Why once do you think?

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Claire2009 · 11/07/2012 23:18

I know it happened once. Was with an ex-bf, felt like I needed a wee, then a gush came (defo was not wee) have come close a couple of times since but nothing.

maras2 · 12/07/2012 00:55

I've only had this during oral sex.My DH loves it.I must admit I was a bit worried when it first happened but quite ok with it now.

mercury7 · 12/07/2012 01:27

I've had it a few times, I was a bit surprised, thought it was some kind of mythBlush

4aminsomniac · 12/07/2012 06:54

I've experienced it a few times, just in the moments before orgasm. I was so puzzled I kept the sheets and sniffed them the next day - definitely not urine! (had a bedwetting ds so I knew what peed-on sheets smelled like!)

balotelli · 12/07/2012 07:14

DW started doing this recently. She had never experienced it b4 and was slightly embarrassed about it but I have no problem with. Its completely natural.

We keep a small pile of towels by the bed to save the mattress.

Embrace it and enjoy it.

newmum001 · 12/07/2012 07:28

Its happened to me once. The guy i was with was very impressed but i was horrified, i thought id wet myself.

mumof4sons · 12/07/2012 08:14

My 'man' loves when this happens. Really turns him on. Never experienced it with exH.

Shh2012 · 12/07/2012 08:33

NC.
I've been having sex for over 30 years and it's happened to me twice. First time was with a long standing partner (now ex). This was before internet porn and neither of us knew what had happened, although somehow I knew it wasn't pee.
The second time was with a guy I'd been seeing, the first time I had sex with him. He used a technique called Yoni Massage focusing on my G-spot and TBH I felt like all he was interested in was trying to make me squirt. Like it was a challenge for both of us. I did squirt, but the orgasm wasn't that earth shattering. He kept going on about how it must have felt fantastic and blah blah...The distant way he'd approached sex left me feeling like a lab rat and I dumped him the next day.
I just don't get why guys find this such a turn on but to me it's like just another pressure for women in the bedroom. We worry about our bodies, we worry about whether we'll have an O or not and now some men are watching porn and seeing squirting as the 'ultimate female experience'. Well it wasn't for me, and I'm not going to feel pressured to perform like a circus seal. If my regular orgasms aren't good enough for a man he can eff off.

watchoutforthatsnail · 12/07/2012 09:35

yes, this happens to me. It used to just happen randomly, i had no control over it at all ( never had anyone complain, most men love it and see it as something amazing)
But, my new boyfriend/ man im seeing, can make me do it on purpose, lots of times in a row.
And thats amazing.
I think last weekend i did it 6 times in a row and then was in such a blissful, totally satisfied state ;)
its a good thing :)

lauratheexplorer · 12/07/2012 10:02

It has happened to me many times. I was 19 when I first discovered it but it was a seldom occurence until my mid twenties. DF knows the buttons to push to make it happen iyswim.

FanjoPingpong · 12/07/2012 10:27

Same as you, Shh2012 - an ex of mine seemed obsessed with making it happen, and didn't seem bothered whether I was actually enjoying myself.

ElizabethX · 12/07/2012 11:45

I thought you either could or couldn't and there was nothing you could do to make it happen or not happen?? sheltered life obv...

Wearsuncream · 12/07/2012 20:01

It happens to me too and I cant be bothered to name change! Very nice indeed although the wet patch is a bit annoying!! Agree with laura - there are certain buttons to push with me too with what you'd normally push a button with if you catch my drift....!!!

Igetknockeddownbutgetupagain · 12/07/2012 20:10

Yep, I've had it happen too. The guy it happened with was a bit...errrr...gifted, and oh my word the sex was completely mind blowing. He was absolutely chuffed to bits when it happened, and it happened more than once, although not since.

Shame he turned out to be a total twat

:)

MrsRobertDuvallHasRosacea · 12/07/2012 20:16

I just have a dodgy pelvic floor.Sad
and I would be very worried about my expensive Tempur mattress.

Shutupalittlebit · 12/07/2012 21:14

Thanks for the replies - quite a lot of you saying yes which is a relief! I sniffed the sheets too and it definitely wasn't wee 4aminsomniac..

My chap is rather gifted too and we have great chemistry! Grin I was scared he would be put off but I told him I was embarrassed and he just called me a baby!

Don't like the sound of the porn connection though. How bloody tedious to be a performing seal!!!

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Lucyellensmum99 · 12/07/2012 21:16

Its wee Grin I do this, my DP loves it, but i think it becaues i have a weak bladder :)

He called you a baby? Hmm

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