how do i deal with this?

[preggofabulous]

Hello all! Just looking for a bit of advice. I've recently found out I'm 12weeks after seeing a colleague for ten months. I stopped seeing him after he said he didn't want to commit, and then I discovered he was sleeping with half the office. We have not been on speaking terms since.

I told him about the baby as I thought it was the right thing to do, but he made it clear I was nothing but a plaything for him and he wants nothing to do with the baby, and swore me to secrecy that he was the father. The next day at work I discovered he had been telling people himself.

I don't want him involved and would rather never see him again, but I have to see him everyday for the next six months until maternity leave, and his new girlfriend who also works with us, and I just don't think I can bear it. Any advice?? X

what did he say exactly? That you were pregnant or that he was the father? I think perhaps you should tell him to stick it and then tell everyone you work with what a creep he is.

Eek, horrible situation. Will you be returning after mat leave?

He told them he was the father. I think he did it cause he likes to be centre of attention.

Unless I find another job while on leave il have to go back. I'm so angry he told people as I feel he has no right if he does not want to be involved, and he's so rude to me, like shutting a door on me!