he's not very good with DS, he's getting better, but doesn't do much in the way of actual "care"
he's very impatient
he's very short tempered
he does not make me feel loved
he does not make me feel special
he makes me feel useless a lot of the time
i never feel he is actually interested when I tell him a story
he talks about nothing but work
he never actually does anything for me, we have nice holidays and go to nice restaurants, but he never actually does anything to make my life easier.
he thinks its ok to wake me up at 1am to tell me he has a really snotty nose
he thinks its ok to wake me up at 5am to ask me where his jeans/boots are
he sends me texts like "out with work tonight"
I know he will avoid emptying the bin, unloading the dishwasher. to my knowledge he has never ever emptied the dishwasher in the 5 years in this house. he was most put out when I told him recently to put his dishes in the dishwasher, not on top of it
He never does any cleaning, tidying, nothing
He expects to find his stuff where he left it. e.g the clothes that he left in a pile in the middle of the room, the letters that he leaves in the middle of the kitchen worktop. So I should actually work, cook, live around his mess.
he moans and moans to me about how much pain he is in, but hasn't taken any painkillers(toothache, cold etc)
if I start to discuss anything important, ie finances, he just says he can't deal with it. Hence he ows 1000's to the taxman
In his defence, re the stuff at home, he works long hours, is stressed and has to catch up with a lot of sleep at the weekend
will be back with more