I posted on here few months ago about how to move on after a brief relationship with a man who was seperated from his wife same time i was seperated from my ex husband. I was given such wonderful advice but didnt seem to listen to it as it was suggested it sounded as if he could still be with his wife or planning to go back. Oh no no no i was having none of it and i knew he had moved out family home and was in a flat. My friend has just returned from a trip in Turkey and during a boat trip heard a familiar accent and got talking to the couple who turned out to be from the same place the guy was from i was seeing. It would seem he and wife were on a TRIAL seperation and now back in the family home and swanning around in brand new fancy car after pleading poverty. I was taking for a ride.....literally and i just wanted to point out it takes someone from the outside looking in to smell the coffee or a rat to be precise and tell you how it sounds. I couldnt see this and he really hurt me to the core but i feel i have so many questions answered now and will never doubt advice on here again. Hope this helps anyone in similar situation.....listen to the advice from others and maybe you will preserve some dignity unlike me and allow the bastard to do a good one on you