I grumble about him all the time, so I wanted to put on record that for the past two days my dp has been doing all - and I mean ALL - the domestic and parenting work while first dd1 and then I were laid low with vile vomitty bug. All I have done is breastfed dd2 when he brought her in to my bed of pain. And he's been a bit ill himself, and very busy at work, but has still cancelled things to get home early to pick up the kids yesterday (which I usually do).
Please remind me of this next time I grumble!