How can he just walk away?

[happyhappymummy]

My ex has stopped paying the mortgage. He doesnt pay any insurances either never has since the day he moved out. I cancelled my home insurance over a year ago cos I just couldnt afford it.
I now have a leak in my bathroom, and all the tiles are coming off the wall. I could cry.
How is this fair? How can they just walk away without a care in the world?
I have 3 sets of uniform to buy this year and my bank balance is £0.
I get £12 a week maintenance.
When my ex picks the kids up hes alway wearing new clothes. Driving around in a new car.
I dont want to sound depressing but I feel so lost today. Who do you talk to on days like this? Its raining and I have no money.Plans were a picnic in the park. Typical British weather!
Im sorry for being miserable!

Have got quite a few bits and pieces which I am more then happy to sent to you honestly. Have summer clothes, t shirts, swimming suit, trousers, underwear, thights and possibly some shoes and wellies but none of these are school shoes. School uniform grey trousers, skirts plus summer dresses in blue and red check. Also have lots of black boys trousers which are as good as new as DS had an overnight grow spurt.

If you like me to send these please pm me your address and will get a package together and post Monday. It would be nice to know they get made good use off.

Btw we have been there and come through the other end so it would be nice to give some back iyswim.

Thankyou gettingeasier.. I appreciate your support. I know they will its just so hard in the process. Im hoping all this will turn around too :)
Thankyou we will :)
TheSecond thankyou so much me and my daughter share our clothes well most. By the way Im a young mum to a teen so its quite nice we both like new look. I dont know what to say other than thankyou for your kind offer. I have never accepted anything like this before.

Income support will help you pay your mortgage interest payments. (I thinkt hey pay at at a flat rate of 2.95% atm..something like that).

Its completely seperate to HB and you will need to contact income support directly. They will make you wait 3 months and won't backdate, but if you can manage for the next 3 months you should be able to stay put :)

HB generally don't know this is available as they don't deal with it, so you must go through income support and tell them you want to apply immediately for help with your morgage payments. If ex left you, then you may not have to wait 3 months and will be eligible immediately.
Goodluck x

I know Charlie it does. When and if it sells Im hoping to find somewhere to rent. Im kinda hoping on a miracle.
Vino you are so kind. I dont really know what to say. I will def take you up on the offer if I have no joy with the school. Thanktoyu so much.
Thanks babyhammock Im claiming this already and its a huge help. Its just my mortgage company are saying my int only has come to an end and capital needs to be paid. They will not let me have just int only. If they did we could stay. Thankyou :)

I've got a warm winter girls coat that would fit a 4 year old. Not waterproof but nice & cosy. Can't offer anything else as my DC's are unbelieveably hard on their uniforms!
PM me your address if you can use it xx

I can help you it with some stuff for the 4 year old including coat, uniform etc. if you PM me I will let you know what I have, and you can see if it's any use. V happy to send over.

iwantbrie and Notoutorabout thankyou so so much for your kind offers. Im going to see if I can get a grant first thing monday.
Just wanted to post to say thankyou, lovely people for your support today. I made it through the day :)
Its settling to know there are some truely lovely people out there. Thanks again :)