According to STBXH sister
STBXH posts a "poor me" status update on Facebook about "accused of being a crap father"
Friends and family respond to needy STBXH in predictable fashion including the "benefits queen" comment above - at age 46 I am claiming benefits for the first time ever while I support our DS who is autistic. It's temporary and in fact I return to work next week.
And STBXH clicked "Like" to all including that one before agreeing to delete the whole thing after my Dad saw it and asked him to. I did not see it as I have blocked ex and his family. Now been sent a "screen grab" and it's not nice.
He is very needy, he told my Dad he is upset as he still loves me. Oh yeah! Surely if he loved me he would have defended me and not "liked" all those messages. The whole thing is now apparently gone.
He is here on Sunday as he has work on Monday and I have always allowed him to stay here on those occasions. I am so angry about this though.