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ex-H been on MN reading my posts

71 replies

mistressmiggins · 24/02/2006 10:08

and says that I shouldnt listen to you lot cos not qualified to give advice
and laughed at what Ive written

feel gutted

I get support from you guys
I get to sound off and say things that perhaps I dont want to say to RL friends & family - mainly cos PROTECTING H
AND chat & laughter - I dont just post miserable stuff....

feel my thoughts have been invaded

yes I know its the internet but I didnt expect him to bother reading as he never did when he was here.

He says he was thinking about the children and was alone in a hotel room with internet access so chose to read what Ive been writing

now feel I cant post about anything other than chat

OP posts:
emmatom · 24/02/2006 10:10

could you name change?

daisy1999 · 24/02/2006 10:10

get a new name

alliebaba · 24/02/2006 10:11

use code name for him like whatatwat

Beetroot · 24/02/2006 10:12

MM, change your name , let it be known in a random thread, and keep MM for chat.

Poor bored man. If he was thinking about the chidlren perhaps he shoudl have kept his dick in his trousers¬!

coppertop · 24/02/2006 10:14

If he's been reading your posts I hope he's also been reading all the posts pointing out what a tw*t he is. The @rsehole!

Lucycat · 24/02/2006 10:15

make sure that you log off when you've finished, then unless you are both on mn at the same time you should be ok, shouldn't you?

WigWamBam · 24/02/2006 10:20

We might not be qualified to give advice but we're qualified to listen. We're also qualified to recognise a tosser of an exh when we read about one - and laughing at what you've written is just further proof that he's a tosser.

He's done this to try and show you that he still has some control over you and your feelings - don't let him. You shouldn't have to change your name, and you shouldn't think that you have to stop posting for support - hold your head up, there is nothing in your posts to be ashamed of. He has behaved disgracefully - and I agree with Beety that if he was thinking about the children (he's only said that to get at you, by the way) he would have kept his dick in his pants.

tiredemma · 24/02/2006 10:24

hope he is reading this TWAT.

Marina · 24/02/2006 10:26

Agree totally with WWB, especially her last sentence. Mr Miggins, I think you should have spent a lot MORE time thinking about your wife and kids while you had the chance

Mascaraohara · 24/02/2006 10:27

He's a complete arse and I hope he does read that! while he's sitting alone in a lonely hotel room thinking about the happy little family that he's lost because he's a two timing piece of rubbish. He's probably angry because it's a smack in the face with reality

He's a complete tw@t.

Keep your name if you feel you can, don't let him force you to change, you are who you are. If he can't accept that then it just proves again how pathetic he is. This is your place not his and if he doesn't like what he's been reading then it's tough.

By reading MN he's only proving that he's still thinking about you in one sense or another.

Mascaraohara · 24/02/2006 10:28

sorry lost of x-posts, distracted by work.

WideWebWitch · 24/02/2006 10:28

What a tosser. He won't like anything he reads about himself there. They do say eavesdroppers get what they deserve. I'll say it again, he's a tosser.

fairyjay · 24/02/2006 10:29

What a saddo!

Marina · 24/02/2006 10:30

Tiredemma, if Mr Miggins went a*se over head on London Underground, do you think we should help him up and call an ambulance, or step over him

ggglimpopo · 24/02/2006 10:31

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ggglimpopo · 24/02/2006 10:34

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trix1 · 24/02/2006 10:39

To MrM if you are reading this.. You are nothing but a low life, lying, irresponsible, weak, pathetic B excuse for a man. A real man would support his wife and family emotionally as well as financially what a twat you are, you never spent any quality time with your two children. I hope you and your slut are happy as you are obviously well suited. Your ex wife will be the one who ends up happiest and at least she can hold her head up high unlike you, you slime ball, you can look forward to expalining to your children when they are old enough to understand that you are an unfaithful, lying b who chose to be with a slut over his wife and children.

tiredemma · 24/02/2006 10:45

marina- i would suggest that if mr miggins had an unfortunate accident on a bus, that we would actually trample all over him, in heels, creating maximum injury.

what a saddo reading his ex-wifes posts

LOSER

Amanda1 · 24/02/2006 10:48

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kiskidee · 24/02/2006 11:03

Ask him why he thinks he is qualified to tell you who you can talk to and listen to.

Still trying to be a control freak from afar.

FrannyandZooey · 24/02/2006 11:06

Am not up to speed with your story Mrs M, but just wanted to add my support and say "Twat".

Twat.

gigglinggoblin · 24/02/2006 11:18

my ex still does stuff he knows will annoy me, then goes out of his way to let me know he has done it. i am a lot further down the road than you, and i now just find it very amusing that this pathetic creature is still so obsessed with me. and for some reason his girlfriend puts up with it! there is no way i would be with a bloke still obsessed by his ex, and thats all these idiots are proving - they still want to be in our lives. think of them as kids having a tantrum to get noticed - they cant find any other way to get our attention so they behave like this. am grinning as i write, its so pathetic. you will feel this way one day. dont bother to change your name, you have nothing to hide from him.

spacecadet · 24/02/2006 11:26

MM- change your name.
serves him right for reading your posts anyway, i think i would be even more tempted to post a thread entirely about him saying what a tw@t he is and that he has a one inch weener.

Beetroot · 24/02/2006 12:35

i wodner if he will join? what will his name be?

Adulterousone?
ileftmywifeandkidsinthelurchandwentoffwithmymistree?

doormat · 24/02/2006 12:40

i wouldnt change your name
only on sensitive stuff tbh that regards him
stuff him