affair - need proof

[kerfuzzled]

I have my suspisions that my husband is having an affair but no concrete evidence. I have accused him before but unable to prove it I ended up backing down. Basically its his phone, deleted texts but still showing on his call log and hiding his phone which has got to mean something right?

I have resolved myself not to say anything until I find some definite proof but finding it hard to keep my mouth shut, so so angry, but when I do confront him I need to have something to back it up.

thanks... I just hope I'm strong enough to get through this.

You sound strong enough!

He will trip up one day so, if you are vigilant, you will find the evidence you need. There are probably other methods. Like hacking into his computer or hiring a private investigator. Some people might say that you don't need evidence but I know I did.

Had a chance to see his phone last night, she had called him and he had called her yesterday. Had a bit of a wobble today and I am meeting with my sister tonight wondering whether to confide in her or wait until I know what's happening.

Yes do confide in your sister - you will go mad otherwise.

Have you tried following your H? Is that not practical?

Maybe get a recording device for his car?

Can you get hold of a printed bill?

Who is she? Have I missed that?
I think the next time you get your hands on the phone, you keep it.

Honeybun I have just had the same and ended my relationship, I checked his phone when he was asleep, then couple months later did the same and got all the proof i needed , so I copied the texts to my phone wish I had done it months ago , good luck with it and Big hug to you.

i had the same but my ex would not admit to anything dispite all the evidence. we were sharing a car at the time. i 'accidently' left my phone in the car on silent and tracked it for two weeks so i could track MY car (note its illegal to track a person) www.followus.co.uk/
if you really want to know its an option...