Dating thread 15! cock-cages, hopeful pensioners the occasional glorious success!

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apologies for title, I am bereft of ideas as the sodding times 'kindly' edited my profile for me.

nice dress chaotic

sodding bastard childofisis...

There are some @!$* out there aren't there. Bloody married (yes I am but seperated)

chaotic you will knock them dead. Hopefully not quite literally.

Hiya thanks for the birthday wishes and yes it was my birthday, mr tall/ persistent didn't make it up

Just wondering of you ladies can help me out with something!

Fwb will be coming over next weekend and I'm going to cook, can you suggest something light but nice to eat that will be impressive at the same time?

Lovely dress Chaotic.

I am speechless Childofisis. That's what men do?

Notsure Pot Noodle!

I was hoping for something slightly more impressive then pot noodle!! Lol

Hmm gave me an idea though, how shout stir fry and Thai fish cakes

salmon and lemon linguine with cream.

you need a lemon, a pint of single cream, black pepper and pasta, maybe a tad of garlic... heat the cream, stir in the salmon, finely grate a lemon into the mix, add in the juice of the lemon, stir in cooked pasta and black pepper to taste.

is yummy!

Mmmmm.....sounds lovely :) Do you cut the salmon in pieces or is it whole?

I just use a tin (!) but works equally well with flaked cutlet of salmon or those cheap odd ends of shaved salmon...

Even better, that means I can buy a tin and then if I don't feel like it in the two days after shopping I can still have it.

Glad you all like the dress, it actually made me look halfway slim as well as looking nice on so that clinched it.

salmon and cucmber sandwiches on brown bread with butter!

I might not actually 'need' sex after all if I have a tinned salmon sandwich....

snape

Chaotic the dress looks great.

Yeah what a scumbag!

2 mates comments are, you gotta wade through lots of rotten apples to find the tree and the only thing to do with rotten apples is to feed them to pigs.

So onwards and upwards.
The box-ticker and I have a provisional date for next week, childcare pending so ...we'll wait and see.

You never know his encounter with me may even have encouraged some morals to form!
It's been a learning curve for me, so all is not lost.

Child. What a wankbadger!!! It's happened to all of us..... Hes an idiot. Doubt he Will change what hes doing though, because he clearly doesn't care.

Chaotic- fab dress!!!! And good luck!!!

Snape- how goes the Times?
And ill confirm thats a fab meal, we have it lots :)

Ty Isis and watch :)

Good luck with interview chaotic.
Do you think its better to get back on horse or leave it a bit? My online man just phoned to let me know he is back with an ex. Met her again last weekend he claims . Me I think always been together, explains why never arranged when to see next and why sometimes would take hours to reply to texts and other times text back and fore. Anyway have got a number of someone who I was texting/e-mailing before online man (well at same time but due to childcare couldnt fit in seeing both just to check out) when he asked me out said I was busy and he said for me to contact when less busy. Do you think any point? Feeling shitty, plus yesterday at thing to arrange ex-H's contact with son discovered he carries a pic of me round with him all the time!! seriously creepy

I would say get back in the saddle so long as you are prepared for a ride.

Can someone give me a hug please? Just been texting just friends back and forth, and have opened some old wounds, how I tried to make my marriage work, the hurt, the miscarriages etc,so a few tears. It's looming too for when I found out I was expecting junior, the day we got engaged, the day I found junior to have no heart beat. So a tear stained face a little sad.

A hug on the way!

Seems to have been one of those days today.

I posted on fb this morning that it was a 'glad to be alive' day, and do you know what it truly is.

So I found out some truth that I didn't want to know, such is life.
From adversity comes strength, after the past 9 months I reckon I'm strong enough to move mountains.

I am so very gratefull for my life and all the supportive friends and family in it.
I wouldn't have it any other way!

Hi all!

Date six was a blast, 40 hours distilled heaven. Loved it.

Veering between starting to want to have 'the conversation' and then actually being scared by that thought and wanting to leave it as it is.

But after 2 days together, it's the elephant in the room a bit. A small, brightly coloured elephant though, a cheerful one. Not a big hulking great grey annoying thing... but still an elephant. (I know what i mean) Hmmm

Talk, or leave it... dunno.

Hey Lubey It all sounds very wonderful. When you say The Conversation, do you mean The Commitment talk, where you both agree you are an item, in a relationship, and exclusive? With things being so wonderful, do you really feel the need to actually say it? Cos it sounds to me like you already have it

The times is... interesting. Got a message from a tranny. His name is Victoria...when it isn't Barry.

Don't get me wrong I thank god everyday for what I have. A song came into my head, and it summed up my marriage and what I want to remember it as perfectly:

And if I could hold on through the tears and the laughter, would it be beautiful or just a beautiful disaster.
Kelly clarkson. My ex bought me the album for our 2nd Christmas.

I did hold on through the tears but there is only so much you can put yourself through before you break. I broke, but with help I am back on my feet. A wobble here and there but managing.

lubey, sounds fab

chaotic, thats a fab dress, best of luck for interview :)

snape, I think you should ask the Times for your money back, misdescription and all that! £32 a month should not mean you need to filter emails from pensioners and trannys (both groups no doubt lovely in their own right, but not what you want for that sort of money)

I think I might be about to be asked on a date. I think he is prob a bit of a weirdo, so not sure whether to go - assuming he asks that is. See, I approach everything with SUCH high expectations

lol snape. that tops my lady pensioner message.

sponge. keeping the standards high is rockin. why weird?

mlm. hug.

i had to get some stuff from ex's tonight. i thought he would off with me but as soon as he laid eyes on me he wanted to know what i had been up to of late. then we started talking abt why he dumped me when he thought our relationship was the best ever. he said i wasnt commited enough and he knew when i finished my medical course in 2 years id piss off back to oxford where i have a house. that wasnt my intention. he also said i hadnt made any moves to rent my house out to live with him. we have been seeing each other 9 months. i didnt see it like that as my.mum lives in my house. its not abt money as he has loads.
he said he loves me. then he text to say im wonderful but thats it.
i did start crying on the doorstep.
feel fed up now