A heart felt thanks to mumsnet

[MissFaversham]

Brief outline.

I'm 49. Met someone 3 years ago. I haven't ever settled down and felt a bit of a freak really as in why has nothing ever lasted blah blah and I can honestly say that I haven't met anyone that I wanted to with.

Anyway, I decided I bloody would have something that lasted, older and wiser etc. and make this one work.

I always thought I was a bit of a "bollox", wouldn't put up with that, well I DID.

No, DV or anything but blimey what a selfish bastard. I asked, I cried, I went on citalopram and blamed my "change of life" for the way I felt.

I came on this site sat on the fence, went one way then the other.

It's thanks to this site that I finally ended it.

And thank you all you wise lovely people x

(just finally kicked him out and having a voddy)

Disclaimer - if this doesnt make sense its not my fault

Well done!

Enjoy the voddy!

Well done you :)

... and it makes perfect sense!

Cheers pringle

makes perfect sense - yuck to the voddy though, i much prefer brandy

hey, MissF, I raise my virtual to you

down with the twats !

Relief overfloweth along with voddy

sadness and elation

I also didn't do a sudo name because it happens to the best of us huh and wanted to really say that we don't have to put up with crap, we really don't just to have a relationship.

slurp slurp.

shall I hold your hair back later ?

Cheers AF. You were the main instigator one!

I'd love someone to hold my hair back later whilst talking to that big white telephone

Well done MissF for taking back your life!

AnyFucker - love reading your comments, I really admire people who don't mince their words and say it as it is!

hehe

you can be sick in my handbag if you like

after me, you and Crispycod have danced around it

I wish you a healthy happy life. Do it your way, your rules. Bugger the others. Cheers

and everyone else on this thread, handbags to the middle...

I will also do the phoenix out of the ashes thing soon, nod nod wink wink. It's a fab learning curve at what ever age.

I'm blunt and to the point, well i thought i was but came on here and dished out advice but guess what i was also talking to myself in a strange way until i couldn't deny it anymore {this was me by the way, not the sages}

Aye it happens to the best of us.

Good on yer! .

But even in the spirit of sisterhood or whatever please count me out of your porcelain kareoke! AF's got it all under control!

Blimey, I'm feeling the luurve here huh

Can we do the hokey cokey.

Nic, you can wipe the snotty nose < don't do snot >

hey, MissF, don't beat yourself up

the strongest women can be blindsided for a while, the good thing is you recognised it for what it was (however long it takes)

whats porcelain karaoke when its at home?

It's all about the Sisterhood !!!

you can do whatever you like, mini

personally, I am "Vogueing" to Madonna right now, it seems to fit the mood

Strike a pose AnyF !!!

yodelling down the bog = porcelain karaoke

am not sure I have the correct "look" though, my dressing gown and Bootie slippers don't quite cut it