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desparado · 23/04/2012 10:18

Sorry, please excuse my naitivity, have heard this expression many times used in context and figured it what it must mean generally, but what does it actually stand for?

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scousemum · 24/04/2012 17:15

Have just spotted this. Am incredulous that there are people defending pornography Sad Very very naive and sad.

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MadAboutHotChoc · 24/04/2012 18:16

I'm with you scousemum Sad It says a lot about them and their own issues Sad

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AnyFucker · 24/04/2012 18:42

I think that people that come on a thread where the OP is having problems in her relationship because of porn must have zero empathy, extremely bad manners and use opportunities such as this in an attempt to rationalise their own, or their partner's, use of it.

I can't see any other reason for it. The title of the OP was not "what do you think of porn?" That would be the only excuse for putting forward some of these comments, nd of course we are all entitled to our opinion. Instead, it looks very much like a vulnerable poster's sad situation has been cruelly exploited so somebody can feel better about their own situation. It happens a lot on here, unfortunately but it is certainly pretty transparent when it occurs.

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puds11 · 24/04/2012 20:29

Your right AF, this is not a debate about whether or not you agree or disagree with porn, it is the op saying that she has reached breaking point with her DP and it just so happens that the straw that broke the cammels back happened to be porn.
Now the thread has been hijacked and descended into a ridiculous argument over porn!
OP i hope your ok, and i think you know if your making the right choice Smile

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TheRhubarb · 25/04/2012 10:09

RobinSure, all you have contributed to this thread are a few ill-thought out opinions that have not been backed up and a repetition of a question that has been answered by 2 of us now.

I also think it is ill-mannered for posters to come onto a thread where someone has said that they are upset about their dp's secret use of porn and their relationship is on the brink, and actually make them feel worse by justifying the degradation of women on the basis that "all" men do it, that it's mainstream and that those who oppose it musn't like men.

You were right, when you said that you don't care enough. That is quite clear.

Sorry OP, I should never have engaged with such vile and arrogant posters.

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