husband left and now only wants to see son 3hours a week

[mrshess]

Brief history
Husband had affair in 2008, i took him back after 3 months even though for the 3 months he hardly saw son and was unreliable.

Now left me for another woman a week ago and has proposed to see son mon,wed,thu for an hour as he works through the day and at weekend he has a hobby where he goes racing pretty much every weekend (this woman does it too) so he can only see him for about 3 hours a week

This really is taking the piss right i just think why bother and if my son didnt love him so much i would stop contact as he could see him at weekend he just chooses to do his hobby.

What do other people think?

Yeah my DSs now 19 & 18 haven't seen their father for 3 years because they don't want to "waste their time" & can't even be arsed to speak to him on the phone! After we split when they were 6 & 7 he met someone else & had v little time for them so what goes around comes around!