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Welcome to the Turning Tavern II: Now in 3D

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Gay40 · 18/04/2012 12:11

Welcome!

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sleeplessindenial · 19/04/2012 20:25

I'm in no rush, I think she is very sweet Smile she has a lot to think about both adult and young Dc, grandchild etc I am just enjoying spending time with her, she fascinates me.

Plus I've done my hard bit now by telling her and am pleased with the outcome so I can just take it easy now and let things trundle along.

She said today that she wished she had met me years ago but that it didn't matter cause we have years ahead of us Smile

sleeplessindenial · 19/04/2012 20:32

I have just had a text telling me I'm beautiful Smile and then stuff about the blind date having a posh car. I told her it probably meant he had a little penis Grin

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Loveisthemessage · 19/04/2012 20:46

Sleepless - it sounds like she is quite full on for someone who wants a platonic friendship. The sudden interest in speed-dating etc looks like a bit of a red herring. It is all sounding quite familiar to me...although me and my wiq didn't do nearly as much flattery/praise and only the occasional eye-popping/heart-pumping comment came. My wiq asked me about whether she should invite some guy she fancied on a date (which made my stomach churn). We did lots of emailing/texting and phone calls and fell into each other's arms after about 3 months. I was the one saying I wasn't gay (yet). So....i reckon the tent scenario will be interesting. How much closer can you get to someone in such a small space?

sleeplessindenial · 19/04/2012 20:53

She invited me upstairs today to help her try on clothes for the date I declined it is to soon for an awkward situation she would panic

We will get there eventually Smile

Cherriesarelovely · 19/04/2012 22:24

Yes, I think you will sleepless! I think her behaviour is transparent!

sleeplessindenial · 19/04/2012 22:41

She just text me saying she was off to bed, and signed off with...... I love you!!

sleeplessindenial · 19/04/2012 22:42

My stomach did somersaults lol Grin

pollyblue · 19/04/2012 22:44

bloody hell, two weeks and she's saying I love you!

Could I put her in touch with The Bolter please, she might be able to give her some tips on being a bit more friendly Grin

sleeplessindenial · 19/04/2012 22:49

she said it in one of the emails too but I thought it was just cause she was upset

We have made plans for a few days next week, going to get eyebrows and nails done one day, I am going over one evening to dye her hair for her, also going clothes shopping one of the days, plus we are out Saturday night and got our bbq Sunday Smile

and she is thinking of cancelling her blind date cause he sent her a sleazy text, well it wasn't to bad (the text) but I am not going to complain if she cancels it

sleeplessindenial · 19/04/2012 22:50

Polly, have you got a time and place yet?

Cherriesarelovely · 19/04/2012 22:53

"I love you"!!!!! Wow! Sweet dreams for you tonight then sleepless!!!

pollyblue · 19/04/2012 22:54

it sounds like things are going really well sleepless. And I bet she will cancel that blind date.

No, no time yet, assume we're going to the pub I suggested.

By the time Saturday night comes I'll have gone 48 hours without chocolate so it had better be worth it!

Cherriesarelovely · 19/04/2012 22:55

So you are basically seeing her pretty much every day then?! This is some epic platonic friendship :)

pollyblue · 19/04/2012 22:56

I would make some crack about sleepless just might as well move in with her WIQ, but I would hate for that to be misconstrued as me supporting cheating. Because we do not support cheating on this thread. Oh no. So there

Cherriesarelovely · 19/04/2012 23:01

No we do not, we absolutely do not, good lord no!

sleeplessindenial · 19/04/2012 23:07

I would just like to state again for any lurkers I am not going to cheat on do and no one is encouraging me too and any comments that could be misconstrued as doing so are intended as jokes sigh

We were talking earlier and I said that I didnt see my other friends as often as I see and speak to her and she said neither did she but that we were different.

Very different, none of my other friends tell me I mean more to them than any boyfriend they've ever had, that I am part of them and that they love me!

sleeplessindenial · 19/04/2012 23:10

I wonder where the lovely likea is tonight Smile

pollyblue · 19/04/2012 23:13

And Gay, she's usually around by now.

Cherriesarelovely · 19/04/2012 23:16

Polly, i keep writing a message to you describing my loving relationship with chocolate but my internet connection keeps cutting out so it keeps getting lost! So, for the record, I agree your wiq must be very special to induce you to give up your Dairy Milk for several days!

pollyblue · 19/04/2012 23:18

thankyou cherries Grin Esp as it's PMT time and I would normally rather smash my toes with a hammer than go without the trusty dairy milk.

(I have a mahoosive bar to sink my head into on Sunday if it all goes t*ts up).

sleeplessindenial · 19/04/2012 23:19

I love chocolate. I have it with every meal, seriously.

How are you feeling about your date drink with wiq polly?

Cherriesarelovely · 19/04/2012 23:21

Well that is another thing we have in common then ladies! My strange DD has no interest in her Easter eggs....leaves them sitting unopened on the kitchen counter...rude not to "help" her eat them!

Cherriesarelovely · 19/04/2012 23:23

As it is just us and my DW is away and I have no one to share this news with, may I just tell you my very happy news? I found out today that my heart problem is not as serious as my consultant thought and i will probably not have to have a pace maker but just an op and medication. I am SO happy about this! Plus I am allowed to drive again!!!!!

pollyblue · 19/04/2012 23:24

Ok sleepless, quite calm at the moment really, probably because I haven't heard anything more from her so it's not actually set in stone. I'll have to pin her down tomorrow night at the latest (the lack of her mobile number is a pain), I'll be busy with the dcs Saturday and don't want to have to keep checking my email then.

I think once I've heard from her again - assuming it's a more friendly email than the last one - I'll be spinning like a top with excitement again.

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