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Welcome to the Turning Tavern II: Now in 3D

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Gay40 · 18/04/2012 12:11

Welcome!

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pollyblue · 22/04/2012 14:09

But she knows all about your situation with DP doesn't she? So I don't think she would be expecting/wanting anything to really happen until you have sorted things out with him? But you might get a better sense of the potential for anything to happen tomorrow.

Possibly. But what do I know?! Grin I am a bit crap at this.

And Where Is Gay today?

Loveisthemessage · 22/04/2012 15:30

Polly - glad you had a nice evening.
Sleepless - don't worry about the massage. Maybe fess up before you give her one start to pummel and be honest you don't know how to do proper massage. You could always suggest doing each other's feet. It's nice and relaxing, not too intimate, but you'll be facing each other so you can chat too.

Got the packing reference. Stuffed shorts etc...Grin
As for strap-ons, that's a whole other ball game. Not sure I see the, ahem, point of them.

Loveisthemessage · 22/04/2012 15:34

Hello Mumbling

sleeplessindenial · 22/04/2012 15:46

She does know that im with someone but considering who he is and why he left her I'm not sure if she will care, I know I wouldn't in her shoes

I don't do feet Grin have promised her a back massage so I will attempt it, I will just try and be gentle and not cause her any damage Blush I can be quite heavy handed at times. and I really want to touch her especially as she will be facing away from me and not able to see me blushing BlushBlush

Gay40 · 22/04/2012 17:14

I've been doing battle with DIY (no not that sort Grin )

I'm defeated by a door handle. I need to look on youtube.

But in the meantime - polly, don't leave it too long till that next drink. And just politely ignore your WIQ's references to getting back out there @ dating (men) and remark upon your bad back which is always helped by massage.

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pollyblue · 22/04/2012 18:58

Funnily enough, I genuinely do have a dodgy back. But I loathe being massaged, I don't think even WIQ doing it would appeal.

Gay40 · 22/04/2012 18:59

Think about it some more Confused

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pollyblue · 22/04/2012 19:01

No, I really do hate it! Grin And I'm sure she's very good, she's done a lot of people (as it were) and is properly qualified. But I just cringe at the thought.

pollyblue · 22/04/2012 19:02

I really do think the lady's not for turning, sadly.

pollyblue · 22/04/2012 19:03

Although I did think she was going to kiss me at one point last night, she was sitting so close. But no. Did squeeze my leg for a bit....

pollyblue · 22/04/2012 19:04

She was talking about possibly moving abroad too Sad

MumblingFanjoChops · 22/04/2012 19:35

Good evening to you all!
I feel your pain G40 door handles are a bit of a nightmare.
I've enjoyed a lovely day outside with DC today.
I'm glad to learn that your meeting went well with DNGWIQ Polly
How did she manage to twist her ankle? Maybe you could be her nurse!
I'm hoping you'll have a chance to meet again soon and take her up on her offer of getting very merry.
Sleepless I think the situation you are in is wonderful, even if you and your WIQ continue as just good friends that is a really magical friendship to have and if it becomes more than friends it sounds like it will be perfect. A massage gives her opportunity to explore how the powers of your touch, as you have mentioned most of the time a massage is more than that.

pollyblue · 22/04/2012 19:39

Hi Mumbling
She slipped on the stairs. She did it yesterday, so I'm glad she didn't call the evening off because of it - she was in quite a lot of pain and I had to help her down the street afterwards.
I hope we meet up again soon, just worrying that she's going to go quiet on me again.

CharlesXavier · 22/04/2012 19:40

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Crushinghard · 22/04/2012 19:43

I'm so jealous of you all with your WIQs! I don't know when, if ever, I'll have a chance to go on a date with a woman. For now I'll have to make do with living vicariously.

pollyblue · 22/04/2012 19:45

Good evening Charles you obv know my mother very well, she does an excellent line in intimidating tones Grin

yes that's the only thing that's made me think hmmm is there a faint possibility, she acted in a way that I would've expected if she'd been squiffy, sitting very close practically heads together, bit of touching....But she was sober. But the music was pretty loud so....And she didn't give me a lift home! Obv hates me so much she didn't want me in her car i had to trot off for a cab.

sleeplessindenial · 22/04/2012 19:46

I have been and bought some massage oil today, and am going over about 10am.

Polly, the leg squeezing sounds nice. Did you squeeze hers back Wink

I feel a bit icky at the moment the huge Chinese I just ate hasn't helped and I really want to go to bed but ds isn't cert agreeable to that idea and is crawling round the floor so no early night for me unfortunately.

pollyblue · 22/04/2012 19:46

.....I know exactly what you mean about the body language being not quite right/absolutely right. And we can't both be completely dilusional Grin

pollyblue · 22/04/2012 19:47

Hi crushing

sleepless no I didn't, i was just a bit agog at how long she squeezed it for.

sleeplessindenial · 22/04/2012 19:47

Polly, she sounds like the body language was positive!

pollyblue · 22/04/2012 19:48

Well yes it was, v positive. But if she's just a tactile person anyway....

sleeplessindenial · 22/04/2012 19:53

Tell me about it, I am utterly confused trying to work out whether wiq is tactile or fancies me!

pollyblue · 22/04/2012 19:55

sleepless have you seen her with any of her other friends? If you have is she touchy-feely with them too?

CharlesXavier · 22/04/2012 20:03

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pollyblue · 22/04/2012 20:06

Charles I think I need to be really brazen at some point and invite myself over to hers, clutching cheap fine wine. She has a lodger at the moment but they're moving out next week.

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