I would send that email polly.
Just meant that it was unusual not to have you here last night likea 
Yep 20 texts isnt a lot at all from her, but had 2 long phone calls and a shorter one so I suppose it balances out.
I do think she will go on the date, you never know, maybe she will realise she prefers my company to his though 
I am going to dye her hair for her, hadn't thought about it being a close contact thing but I guess it is 
I was going to offer her a nice relaxing massage as she has trouble sleeping
I suggested that I go round of an evening to dye her hair but she kept suggesting day times..... I've just realised she will be alone during the day but not of the evening! Very optimistic of me to think that maybe the reason why, but I'm going to carry on and think it anyway 