the old chestnut of pornography usage

[kilmuir]

i know my partner views online pornography, he thinks i don't know. It does nothing for me and he never mentions it. Not sure how I feel about it, sometimes i feel offended and upset other times i think I should just let him get on with it. Am i being a fool?

How do you know he views it if he keeps it private and never mentions it? If it bothers you enough to check his browsing history and if sometimes you feel offended or upset then it's worth talking to him about it.

many months ago we were looking for a holiday villa, I checked history to find the details and i noticed the porn sites he had been on late at night. for some reason i find myself checking every week

I'm against all types of humiliation of women pornography. It's not a damn necessity for men to watch it. Yuck.

But I suppose everyone will say depends on what he's watching and for how long. I'd personally think my DP was a twat to be doing this.

Then it makes you uncomfortable and you should be able to talk about that honestly within a loving relationship and reach some kind of compromise or agreement.

if it doesnt bother you, its not an issue. Dont create issues where there arent any

does he do this late at night instead of coming to bed and being intimate with you ?